The Red Letters


The loss of a loved one is a tragic reality that we have to face in this life, and oftentimes it might come quick and unexpected. This can cause us to arrive at a state of hurting and deep discomfort within as we deal with such a loss. In times as such, we need to turn to God’s word and hold fast to the unchanging truth that lines the pages of scripture.
Matthew 5:4 “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.” This promise can leave us rest assured that in times of loss when we are left without words, God will provide a peace that will comfort us and truly bless our soul.


Here recently my grandfather went to be with the Lord and although he was in Christ it’s still challenging to part with someone you dearly loved. I received the news of his passing two hours before officiating my first wedding, so I had a brief moment to quickly gather myself so I could handle the wedding ceremony approaching. After a successful ceremony I went on to attend the wedding reception where the celebration of the marriage would take place, and as many of you know theres not too many places in this life that is as exciting and as lively than a wedding reception. The bride and groom are over the top excited, family and friends all gathered around eating and dancing truly having a time of celebration. It was at this moment that this verse from Matthew 5:4 came to life for me. As I looked around the room, God assured me that my grandfather was doing better than anyone in the room. He had made it to paradise a place well beyond our mere human imagination. This truth not only brought me comfort in my time of mourning but it blessed my soul and increased my faith. What a hope that us as Christians can have in a time of loss! That not only will we see our loved ones again because of Jesus, but they are at the truly doing better than ever!

Are you experiencing difficulty dealing with the loss of a loved one? If so turn to God’s word and his promises for comfort and rest, not the things of this world. We should hold fast and stand firm on the promises of God rather than let the heartache of loss consume us in tough times. Times of loss can become a testimony of God’s love and faithfulness if we choose to believe it over the circumstances at hand. Don’t let the tragedy consume you, stand firm on God’s promises and seek him through tough times. His word is unfailing and you will be blessed and comforted.

-Tyler


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