Matthew 5:43-48
43“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ 44But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46 If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? 48 Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
Here again, we see Jesus raising the bar to the point that pushes us to deal with the source of the problem—our heart. To do what Jesus is asking us to do in this passage, we can only do it by an actual heart change that drives us to seek the power of God to help. In this life, people will wrong you, shorthand you, and stab you in the back. Do I need to remind you that we haven’t reached heaven yet? We still have to deal with challenging people and complicated situations, and one of the most complex situations is when people or circumstances have wronged us. As Christians, we need to respond in a way that shows we are walking with Jesus and have been changed from the inside out.
To love and even pray for those who persecute you or wrong you is such an extreme ask for the flesh that it is nearly impossible. But we know that through Christ, we can do all, including praying and hoping for the best for those who have wronged us. I remember growing up how often there were fights at school because if one person pushed it too far, there had to be a retaliation of some sort, and it always ended up bad for both parties. We inherit this feeling of trying to justify when we are wronged because of the sinful nature we have inherited from birth. We must crucify our sinful nature along with Christ and become new in our ways through Christ, and we must love how Christ loved, which is a love without boundaries. Even when it’s hard, even when the world says you are justified in your anger, we must remember the words for Christ and go as far as to pray for those who persecute us. We must push the boundaries, look to God for strength, and remember who we represent and what we are called to do as Christians.
Do you have unresolved anger or grievances affecting your relationships or spiritual connection with God? I encourage you to take it further by praying and showing love to those who have wronged you, just as Jesus would have done. By doing so, God will bless you and see improvements in your relationships.
– Tyler.